Vulkan: Update VMA to 3.3.0

Updated to latest release. Has some fixes and a new API for easy
integration with Volk.

Pull Request: https://projects.blender.org/blender/blender/pulls/144434

intern/ghost/intern/GHOST_XrGraphicsBindingVulkan.hh

@@ -11,6 +11,10 @@
 #include <list>
 
 #define VMA_VULKAN_VERSION 1002000  // Vulkan 1.2
+#if !defined(_WIN32) or defined(_M_ARM64)
+/* Silence compilation warning on non-windows x64 systems. */
+#  define VMA_EXTERNAL_MEMORY_WIN32 0
+#endif
 #include "vk_mem_alloc.h"
 
 #include "GHOST_ContextVK.hh"